How come men say we are servants and wimps?

we are their wives and that doesn't mean we are their servants why cant the get up and make dinner? we don't need to make it EVERY DAY OF THE YEAR! they should help out too! i wanna see them carry a watermelon inside them for 9 months! do you guys remember octo-mom? 8 KIDS AT THE SAME TIME!! i wanna see men do THAT!