I want to make my hair a shiny honey blonde color but I don't want to damage it!?

I am originally a dirty blonde/ light brown girl and i don't really like it. I want to make it lighter and shiny but i still want it to be healthy! I heard dyeing hurts your hair and so does lemon juice/ sun-in (which make it look bleach blonde anyways) Does anybody have an options for me that are non expensive?