My Horrible Fiance :'(?

I have been with my fiance for 2 years now. I love him to bits, and I know he loves me. However, recently especially at night time he gets really annoyed with me. Yesterday, I watched a really scary film and could not sleep. So I rung him to take my mind off it (I'm a wimp-haha). At first he was alright. But then as time went by he started getting really rude. He blamed me for his rudeness. He never ever gets annoyed with me-he blamed it on his tiredness. He told me that I'm selfish for keeping him up. He said he can't be bothered with me. Without stating what he said he got me upset to the point when I was sobbing uncontrollably. He behaved coldly and told me to stop being silly and go to sleep. Literally it went on for hours-i was in a real state afterwards. And he just continued being an asshole- insulting me and criticising me. Then this morning he phoned me and apologised for his behaviour as he said "I'm male" and "I'm an asshole when I'm tired". Am I wrong for not seeing that as an excuse. This isn't the first time he's done this. Its really deeply effecting me. When we meet up tomorrow-i know he is going to be normal and hug/kiss me. But I want him to see how much his rude behaviour effects me. I want him to stop. And be like he was at the start of our relationship. How can I do this? How can I make him see how much he hurts me (apart from telling him-ive done that). Sorry its long. Thank you xx