PLEASE Help Ladies. I Am Desperate?

OK. Here it goes. I have been dating this girl for 3 months now. We only see each other every other weekend because we both have kids. The good thing is we have the same schedule as when we do get our kids. We are not at that stage right now to introduce our children to each other as well as the children to one another. When we are free on the weekends we spend every waking moment together and it is absolutely amazing. Here is the problem I think. When I text her I am always saying and calling her baby, sweetie or honey. When she responds to my text messages she doesn't mention or say any of those words to me. Does this mean she isn't into me as much as I am into her. She did tell me that she does have a problem expressing herself. She said she is not good at it. Also, she was in an abusive marriage, verbally and emotionally. She has been separated and divorced for a total of 4 years. She tells me that she looks for red flags and she is cautious because of what happened in her marriage. But she did say she is less cautious with me. In 3 months time frame I have done so much for her because I really like her. I am at the point where I am falling in love with her. If a woman is looking for red flags isn't that holding her back to what she could have great in the future. I want someone that is ready to be in a full committed relationship. I don't want to lose her because she means everything to me. Do I have a problem here. Should I give her more time and based on what I have said do any of you ladies out there think I have a problem. Am I wasting my time. Please help me.